21 April 2008



Well Maine is finally breaking into spring, and with it, Aitugan has found new freedom of movement and exploration. In addition to turning 1 since I last updated the blog, she has added a number of signs and words to her vocabulary. She continues to run everywhere and is fascinated with steps and uneven surfaces.

We have just come back from a weekend at the Cape shared with our dear friends the Robinson's and their daughter Aila whom we first met in Almaty before Christmas.

It was wonderful to watch these two girls play, share, and generally romp together with their new found capacities, and of course it was marvelous to share stories and observations with Jennifer and Marshall, and to revel in our coincidentally concurrent journey.



Going up stairs is the easy part. Coming back down safely is the hard part.



Aitugan first saw sand in Florida in February though at that point she wasn't walking and so her explorations at the time were limited.



She seemed to really enjoy the feeling of the sand on her hands and feet.



For Aila this was her first chance to walk in sand and feel the ocean at her feet, and she seemed to love it.



I don't know what it is about this photo that makes me think of my brother Jamie. She was just so pleased to be playing in the sand.



Testing the water's edge.



Tickling - a universal smile maker.



Let's not overlook the entertainment power of the raspberry.



What child doesn't enjoy riding on Dad's shoulders?



After a long afternoon of walks and sand, nothing beats a bottle.

Aitugan has come so far in the past month. As for signs, she now uses a number of them including more, eat, drink, milk, and all done. New ones on the horizon include up, down, bathtime, and thank you.

As for words, there is a hi/hello accompanied by putting anything to her ear. We have lots of dada, and mama, though not always at meaningful times. There is a distinctive doda she uses for the dogs that seems to approximate Daouda, the name of one of our dogs who pays the most attention to her.

I'm sure I'm missing some of her words, though for all of her vocalization, and she does talk a lot, it is mostly comprised of excited and or exasperated sounds.

Her comprehension is growing rapidly. She will hug nearly anything on command. We can direct her to toys and objects, and she will bring them to us. She understands sit, stand, up , down, playroom, Tougy's room, diaper, outside, and many more such words.

It is such an amazing process wherein we can begin to communicate, and I know it must be liberating for her as well.



Aila had fun playing hide and seek at the edge of the sofa.



Despite having gotten together with the Robinson's several times, both in Kaz and here in the States, this weekend was the first time the two girls were able to spend quality playtime together and they did so wonderfully. Toys were freely handed back and forth and overall there was a gentle cooperative tone. Very nice to see.



It seems every child has a photo from their first birthday with cake and icing smashed about their body. Unfortunately on Tougy's birthday(05 April), we had had such a long day, that by the time cake came around, she was fussy and tired and had no interest in eating.

Our rendezvous on the Cape provided the opportunity to try again, and this time the cup cakes and frosting that Kjersten made were a hit - especially with the adults.



Sunday morning in Osterville was beautiful and quiet, and just seemed to be screaming out for a long walk - and so we obliged.



Along the way we stopped off at the camp benches to allow the girls to demonstrate both their agility and balance.

For several weeks now Aitugan has made a habit of sticking out her tongue while concentrating. Hey it worked for Michael Jordan!



Interestingly we noticed that though Aitugan confidently walked along the red green and blue planks, the yellow ones gave her some pause and definitely were met with more caution.



Of course most often walks with toddlers really are carries. How we love our Ergo Carrier.

The photos below are from our quick trip to Chicago for Aitugan's true birthday. We flew out Saturday and back Sunday, so for those of you in Chicago who wish we would have told you we were in town, please understand that our time was limited.



One of Tougy's favorite games is to tickle our feet, and we of course always exaggerate our reactions to increase her joy.

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Tougy was joined by lots of family in Chicago. In addition to my father, stepmother and two sisters with whom we stayed, my brother, his wife, and their four children came over Saturday.

Here cousins Annie and Lauren join Tougy on the kitchen floor.



Cousin Lauren



Cousin Katy



My sisters (Tougy's Aunts) Cat and Emily made a wonderful cake.



Here Poppy (my father) helps Tougy blow the candles out on their joint birthday cake while Cousin Katy looks on. Poppy's birthday is the 4th, while Tougy's is the 5th - different years though.



As I mentioned earlier, cake came a little too late for Tougy.

The day began in her crib in Maine. We left here at 3am to drive a couple hours to Manchester NH for our 7 am flight to O'Hare, spent a napless day with cousins, aunts, uncles, and grandparents in Chicago, then somewhere around 8pm, fell apart over cake.



A good night sleep later and Aitugan was a child renewed.

Tougy loves swinging in all its forms and will surely become Kjersten's willing roller coaster partner when the park gods decree her tall enough.

Until then, a good swing with her Mimi will more than suffice.



Having grabbed Tougy from her crib to head to the airport Saturday morning, we arrived to find we had forgotten shoes. Here Tougy proudly displays her new white party shoes purchased on the fly in Lake Forest. Hopefully they will still fit when we head to Arizona next month for Tanda's wedding.



She is getting so big and so independent. It has been incredible to watch the changes.



And lastly, finally a well deserved nap before heading back to the airport Sunday.

She was a great flier again, though it certainly works well to fly either early or late in the day. She slept the whole flight and car ride home, arriving back in her crib somewhere after midnight Sunday. Exhausting but so worthwhile.

So Uncle Erik (and Jessica) you're it. You are all that is left to meet in her extended family and we know we will see you at the cousin's reunion in New Hampshire over the 4th of July.

Before then we'll likely make trips to Boston (Tess and Kerry), Arizona (Tanda and Micah's wedding), and Chicago (Kazapalooza), so as Lyle (and Townes before him) sings - it won't be long til I'll be tying on my flyin' shoes. Take Care.

16 comments:

Brad, Corrine and Andrew said...

Hey guys! Yes, it's your long lost friends from Kansas City! Aitugan is getting so big! What great photos. We've been trying to send you emails for days -- we think to no avail. We've done some research and found that Yahoo is blocking a lot of email. Can you add our hotmail email address (bradkreed@hotmail.com) to your Yahoo contacts list? I think that might solve the problem. Or give us another non-Yahoo email address. We are great. We have lots of pics of Andrew to send to you! Take care. Brad, Corrine and Andrew

Jennifer said...

Wow, both girls have grown so much! It's great to see them together again. I swear Aitugan looks like a little toddler in those pictures!

Happy Birthday Aitugan!

The sunglasses are great! I love them. If only Gigi would leave hers on. No such luck though!

Glad you guys had so much fun.

kitzkazventure said...

Thanks for the update....beautiful, beautiful girls.... We have yet to experience sand in our year of firsts but someday! Happy 1st birthday, Aitugan!

Patrick & Eileen said...

Precious photos! We're preparing for travel next month and I'm taking a moment to check in on blogs this morning. Glad I did! So good to see this!!

Eileen

Trudi said...

I have been missing reading about your darling family! So glad you posted!!!

Happy Birthday sweet Aitugan! The weekend looks like SO much fun. How wonderful that you and our family can meet up once in a while - it warms my heart and perhaps sometime we will get to meet you too. Thank you too for posting the beautiful photos of Aila - we can't get enough! Any chance I could ask you to email me some? (trudibehr@gmail.com)

Susan said...

what a WONDERFUL Post. I Love seeing the pictures of your goreous kiddo and of course Aila too...SO CUTE! Oh my goodness, they are precious. You are such an incredible photographer.
I love hearing how she is doing and developing. You are such a great documenter of events. :)

Love love love seeing the pictures of the family with Aitugan.
She is SO CUTE and sweet and happy.
Just as it should be. :)

The Cook said...

We are not upset because we will see you in June! Happy birthday little cutie! It is amazing the connections you make with people you meet in Kaz. We have many friends we will treasure forever.

Regina said...

Wow, that was better than 200 gallons of butter pecan ice cream. Thank you for the indulgence! Lovely, lovely, lovely all around. I'm so happy for you guys, as well as the Robinsons, and that fate brought you together in Kaz.

Kelly and Sne said...

Wow - quite an update! I think that sharing our children's "firsts" really is the best part of parenthood. How much fun you are having! (I love it that Aitugan has her little tongue stuck out while walking on the bench like she's really concentrating.) And it's great that you all have friends for life.

Thanks for the update and photos. THey are priceless!

Our Family of Bloggers said...

HAPPY 1ST BIRTHDAY AITUGAN!!! (I kept checking for the birthday post, so I am happy to finally see it!) Looks like you had a wonderful celebration in Chicago and then again on the Cape. That is wonderful you spent the weekend visiting with the Jen, Marshall and Aila. Please send them our best! We can't wait to see you guys next month!!!
Sara, Adam, and Rylie

marsrob said...

You can post about us and names etc. all you want. We originally thought it would be best to do anon. blogging, but now we are shifting our thinking. WSe love you all!!!

Jill said...

Hello,

You don't know us- we are the Chases (Jill and Chris)- and we are in the process of adopting a little one from Kaz too. We've really enjoyed following your blog (Aitugan is a beautiful little girl:)- and have been happy to find another couple who, like us, can have a biological child, but chose to adopt! I'm learning just how rare that is. Thank you for opening your blog to strangers.

McMary said...

What a great weekend you had with Aila and her parents--the pictures are so lovely. It truly is fun to see both of the girls grow and change so much--thanks so much for sharing. It makes my day to read blogs like this while I am waiting.

marsrob said...

What are you doing checking your comments again? What am I doing commenting again? I am ALWAYS on blogs!! Ha!!!xoxoxoxoxooxoxoxo

The McLellands said...

Look at her beautiful hair!! It no longer sticks up as did in Kaz! She is adorable!!

Kristan and Mark said...

Wow what incredible pictures, but then they always are.

I remember the day when we had been in Sadie's life longer then without us. It was a very special milestone for me.