OMNF - Oh Man, Not Friday.
So now we have to wait until Monday to see Nurai again. She is doing so well. She actually made efforts to quasi-crawl this afternoon in an attempt to reach her toys. The fact that in doing so she plunged face first into the floor is just a minor hiccup, a small matter of style yet to be perfected.
The visit began, as most kaz visits begin, with a lengthy wait. The first shot of the day is of us waiting in 'the visit room' where we decided the bench was better placed further up the hallway to give us a decent amount of floor space and to act as a further privacy barrier.
In conjunction with the coat rack, the new bench placement gave us the confidence to once again remove her hat and outer sweater. If you promise not to tell, I'll admit that we actually pulled up her shirt at spied her belly button at one point.
It was a good visit, but I must admit that I am tiring of trying to find new and exciting way to photograph within our darkened closet, and thus, there are not a great number of new shots from today's visit. I lament that Nurai will not have the same voluminous record of our time visiting her in the Baby House as does Tougy. And the inequity begins.
Following our visit, we promised Tougy we would go to the outdoor park (Ken Baba) again if she took a good nap, and thus the next lot of photos is from our afternoon there. We have now been there 3 times, and weather permitting, we will go there a number of times more before we leave.
It is a good sized park with a number of OSHA denied rides and amusements that Tougy finds irresistible. Easily her favorite is the swing pictured here that she and KJ ride together. They have such a good time that it almost makes me want to do it, but alas, I recognize that spinning and I are not on friendly terms.
The last group of photos might surprise those of you who know me and my rather dispassionate relationship with food, though we like this restaurant so much we just had to mention it. It is just a block or so from our apartment, and is really quite casual despite its more formal decor. It is rather an anomaly here in Kaz to find a restaurant with such panache and swagger, but the food and presentation really are exceptional given that the three of us get out of there for around $30.00.
KJ had a grilled chicken Caesar, I had a wonderful lentil soup followed by a very flavorful and well prepared piece of Mr. Ed, and Tougy had a stylishly plated chicken fingers and fries. Who plates children's dishes with a flower of ketchup and tartar sauce with Parsley leaves? No other place I know.
At this point we have no real plans for the weekend, just a lot of hang out time with Tougy, and if weather permits, more outdoor park time. We have asked to head off to Turkestan next Saturday and, at least at this point, expect to have a sunny and 60 degree day for that.
Come Monday (yes Jimmy a little bit of you is never far away), we will already be at day 13 of our 14 day bonding period, and expect to know our court date by the end of next week. Once we know our court date, the rest of our time in Kaz this time around will begin to unfold.
We hear that court here in Shymkent is a rather tame affair, and that is just fine with us. Prior to applying for a court date next week, we still have to come to a final determination for Nurai's complete name. We know that Nurai will lead off and that Morrison will bat clean-up, but what is unsettled is who is in between.
We feel compelled to follow the format we used for Tougy's name wherein her first middle name relates to her place of birth and the second comes from family, but truthfully, Shymkent is not a pretty name for a beautiful girl, and we have yet to come up with a good alternative.
As for the family component, we are looking at two names from my side of the family. The first was my uncles middle name and the second is an older family name. Let me just say for the record that naming is difficult business.
Speaking of names, while we were out at the park today we actually heard Nurai's name. It was a family of 3 girls in which the infant daughter was named Nurai. It is not a common name, and really caught us by surprise to hear them use it. When we tell people here that Tougy's name is Aitugan, most act as if they have never heard it. Could be our accent or it could just be that unusual, even here.
Another interesting thing is that on more than one occasion we have seen a look of surprise upon someone's face when they learn that Tougy is Kazakh, and twice we've heard that people here assumed she was Filipino. We might expect that in the states, but it has surprised us that here in Kazakhstan, a great many people don't immediately assume she is Kazakh. Maybe if we were in Manilla.
That's all the energy I've got tonight. Over the weekend I hope to post a menagerie of photos shot here over the past week that don't necessarily have anything to do with our adoption. Take Care.
19 comments:
Beautiful girls as usual, and that food looks great. I thought the question mark on Tougy's plate was quite creative!
Good luck with the naming process. It is indeed a challenge to get it just right.
Great post...not many can inform and entertain the reader :)
Still can't get over the cramped quarters at the BH. Maybe they meant bonding in a physical sense???
Such beautiful photos, you make it all so enticing. I think, sadly, it's common that subsequent children get a few less photos, but I would bet money you will make up for it. Additionally, you have some awesome ones that speak volumes and isn't that what we photographers really are after -- to say we have 10 AMAZING photos even if we took 1000. I don't know how close you want to stay to the name Shymkent but if you like the "sh" sound then Shayna means beautiful in hebrew. Nurai Shayna Kent Morrison?? If I'm not mistaken "Shayna Kint" means beautiful child in Yiddish. That's all for my creativity - I have enough problems thinking of boy names.
Steph
awesome update, as usual...and the food at that restaurant (except for Mr Ed) looks fabulous. I LOVE the plating, however. And the park - wonderful. Good luck on the naming. I was wondering if you'd try to work in the region, as you did with Astana in Tougy's name. But Shymkent is challenging! I like Stephanie's idea of Shayna - beautiful. Or maybe just Kent and the family name you have in mind - good luck, glad it is you not me making that decision! Have a great weekend and we'll look forward to scenes from out and about in Shymkent!
Gosh - maybe since the baby house is so crowded you can petition to spring Nurai sooner?
Smart move with the furniture. I love the "slice of life" perspective of the shot from above. Those OSHA denied rides are always the most thrilling. ;-) We went to the fair last night and saw that same look on Milo's face.
I chimed in on the name thing in the KazMama discussion group. I'm sure you will pick beautifully fitting middles for your sweet girl. I'm surprised that the locals don't recognize Tougy's name or look as Kazakh. I shared with you guys way back when I was in Almaty I heard a young man call out to his friend Aitugan.
Now how on earth someone can have a dispassionate relationship with food I'll never know. But yes, the artistry of those dishes (at that price!) calls for a photo. Reminds me of how much food I photographed in Italy. As they say, we first eat with our eyes!
Hope you enjoy your weekend, despite that you will be missing Nurai. So does she have an innie or an outie?
I love your posts!! you are such a good blogger daddy. I don't think Joe ever read our blog once..maybe when he was home between trips.
You did a great job with the photos and the dialogue!
The park reminds me of the one in Kostanai..Sean and I had fun there.
Tougy is a champ...as is his sister.
I can't believe you look at her belly button. In just a blink of an eye..she'll be wanting it pierced!
Much love to you Morrisons!
Look forward to the daily udpates...cramped quarters and all!
xoxoxo
Thanks for the update. Glad to see things are going smoothly. Have a great weekend.
It's interesting that the Kazakhs aren't recognizing that Tougy is Kazakh. Maybe they don't expect to see a Kazakh child with American parents? It'll be interesting for us to go back with our very-Kazakh-looking son, to see how the locals react.
Way to go Nurai- trying to crawl. I bet you she has a whole bag of tricks you just aren't privy to given the limited quarters and arrangements for bonding time. But so glad you got a little peek of her belly button! And I love the picture of Tougy w/ the pink hat in the red door. The carnival/ park looks fun. I'm amazed that in Southern Kaz people don't recognize Tougy as Kazakh. And the food- impressive, though I'll have to pass on the Mr. Ed plate.
That restaurant looks really nice! My last principal (whom I loved) was named Nuri so I'm especially fond of your younger daughter's name.
When people try to guess Alexa's heritage, I always get "Hawaiian." Go figure. Tougy reminds me so much of Alexa! Maybe they have shared Filipino/Hawaiian heritage.......
Shannon
I'm so glad that you have already found Ken Baba park. We lived directly across the main street at the far corner of the park.
Like you said, Shymkent isn't exactly the prettiest name for a beautiful little girl. Since Shymkent sits directly along the silk road might I suggest looking for something that pertains to the road or history of the route??? If something comes to me, I'll let you know:o) Obviously, nothing has struck me yet, lol! There has to be something pretty along those lines, right???!
We loved that restaurant too!!! My favorite was the pizza! Have a great weekend!!
I am loving reading this blog just like your last one and I can not believe you are all there again so soon! I love the idea of doing it again myself. Since now is not the time I will live vicariously through you as you bring home your 2nd daughter and sister for Tougy. I can't even express how exciting it is to watch a family grow through adoption. You have 2 beautiful girls and they have 2 wonderful parents! What about Nurai Shyla Morrison?
It is so much fun watching your family grow! Nurai is so beautiful and her big sister Tougy is just glowing in her new role!
Naming was always so fun for me. My daughters names are both Hebrew and relate to their given birth names as well as to one another. On that note, if you are interested in taking part of the word Shymkent, the name Shy in Hebrew means gift. It is a name that I wanted to use for one of my girls but just couldn't work into the names Tamara or Ludmilla or even the Luba that I thought was DD#2's name.
Can't wait to hear the full name you decide upon!
best wishes,
Shanna
I'm curious why are you in the hallway? When I was there in August, we got to spend out time in the gym which was nice and had a lot of equipment and small swings for babys to play on.
Steve, you are such a fantastic writer - thank you for narrating your experiences equally eloquently in word and pictures!
oops, sorry, that comment was actually Jamie's but apparently Steve's account is logged in right now. sssh - don't tell!
Oh the park is wonderful! We had two small amusement parks in Karaganda and they were life savers for us having our boys with us. We spent lots of time there without question. Of course my heart would stop every time they got on one of the rides and I don't have to tell you why. Not so sure I would have done that in the states, but I embraced the opportunity in Kaz, smile.
I am shocked at the one hour a day visits.
I have to say I have been amazed at how alert Nurai looks in her pictures and so engaged. She also does not appear to have the sad sad eyes that are so common in those first Kaz pictures when most meet their child.
Hope it's a good weekend.
We are getting spoiled by all the contact we get to have with KJ in Kaz.
Just catching up on your status and it looks as though all is going well. Despite the cramped quarters, Nurai seems to be already benefiting from your daily visits. Although you only get an hour, it is an hour more than she already has with such focused and loving attention.
We only got to spend between 1.5 and 2 hours a day with Kairat (albeit 7 days a week) and it made a HUGE difference. I like to think of it as one of my students who has difficulty with a subject; if they could get extra 1 to 1 attention for their needs on a daily basis their learning would increase, as well as a bond to the person fulfilling that need.
An hour can be a lot!
Between the dimples and smiles, it's already apparent these beauties are sisters. So glad to see things are going so well for your family! And is that your apartment? Nice digs. We hope we're as fortunate in our experience as you've been in Shymkent, first couple days aside. KJ, we just received our travel date. Should be in Kaz the first week of Dec. We don't know which region yet, but we're excited! Maybe we'll run into each other. Enjoy the rest of your journey!
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