14 December 2007

Everyday is an adventure.

As I should have anticipated, having just gone and told you all how wonderfully she was sleeping, the past 24 hours were nothing like the previous 48.

She didn't sleep all that solidly throughout the day yesterday as I mentioned, and then last night didn't settle down until 10pm. She awoke a little after midnight, had her bottle and then proceeded to do everything but sleep until sometime after two. She would alternate between playing and climbing on us, putting her head on our shoulder and closing her eyes and screeching and crying, usually all within a 10 minute span.

We finally thought she had worn her little self out and was in for a good sleep, but only slept until 7. So now rather than the blissful 11+ hours we had had the previous two nights we were looking at something a hair under 7. Well we thought, she'll certainly be one tired little girl today and take an extended nap to make it up.

Its almost funny how wrong a new parents logic can be. I say almost because it is only truly funny to those hearing about it, not those living it. Our precious little Aitugan played, crawled, explored and bounced until 9pm tonight with only one 45 and two 30 minute naps.

It bordered upon incomprehensible how an 8 month old child could expend what surely was a personal record in terms of calories in a 24 hour period on what must also have been very near to her personal record for sleepless hours in the same period.

By her schedule she should have had 16 hours of sleep and 8 awake while her actuals were closer to 9 asleep and 15 awake. I must say that for such numbers, she was in a mostly wonderful and alert mood. I think our biggest concern is that she is not feeling well, which may quite probably mean Chicken Pox.

No I'm not being a hypochondriac, several of the child groups at the Baby House had come down with it, including several of the children who had been in the adoptive child playroom. She certainly feels warm to us, but she has also been extremely active. I went out to try and find a thermometer tonight but to no avail. We will try again tomorrow with our translator.

So where are we in our process? By all accounts, about to embrace a great number of holidays.

The good news today was that as of this evening we have obtained both Aitugan's Passport (Kaz) and her exit visa. Both of these needed to get done here in Astana before traveling to Almaty and the hope was that in fact they would be completed today, but we had always held off our optimism, for if they had not, because of the Kaz Independence Day celebrations, the next Kaz Gov't business day is next Wednesday.

So that is the good news. We are cleared to go to Almaty. The less than stellar part is that once in Almaty, we first need to get Aitugan's HIV test(standard for all Kaz adoptions) and Physical done before submitting paperwork for our US embassy interview.

Now typically this can all happen in two business days. 8am HIV folowed by a physical exam, take the results to the embassy by noon, get your interview the next day, and you're ready to fly.

So what's our anticipated schedule? The medical office we are told will be closed Mon and Tues in observance of the Kaz Independence, so Medical will happen Wednesday. The US Embassy will be closed Tues, Wed, and Thurs in observance of - I have no idea, but it means that out paperwork will be turned in on Friday, and with luck, we will get our interview on Monday the 24th, a full 10 days from now. Yippee!!

Our original tickets home are for the 28th, and because of the holidays, we do not expect to be able to push them up any in the event that we are cleared to leave On Christmas, but we have seen that British Air has a one way fare of 1057 going through London to Boston that takes 21 hours.

We most certainly will look to do it if at all possible. Given how much the adoption has already cost, the US2000 more it would cost to arrive home Christmas Day and forever have that as our day seems a no brainer. We'll see.

Aitugan seems to be sleeping somewhat better this evening. With any luck, so will we. Take Care.

Oh I almost forgot to say - To the many of you who regularly read our blog, and especially to the great number of you who take extra time out of your day to write us comments - We greatly appreciate it and have been touched and often overwhelmed by your love and support. It means far more than you may realize to this family miles away from home and family, and going through such a dramatic and life altering experience.

Many of you we know simply by location, for nearly everyday I click on the counter and then choose By Location, and I run through the list and see that Marn Spain is on as are other regualars such as Zonhoven Belgium, Mercer Island WA, Austin TX, Cedar Falls IA, Clearwater FL, Mentor OH, Silver Spring MD, and Tunkahanock PA (I know I mispelled that, but you know who you are). Thank You.

16 comments:

lindak said...

Just want to say hello,as I've been following your blog for a while now. Maybe Galway, Ireland showed up on the map?
I will post a longer comment later, as I'm busy now, not least because I have two children from Kazakhstan....adopted in 2001 and 2004.
In the meantime, congratulations on the adoption of your beautiful daughter, your wonderful photography, your equally evocative writing and your obvious appreciation for things Kazakh.
Linda

Monica said...

With full respect for the fact that my 15 yr experience raising bio-boys is NOT going to be the same as yours with your sweet Kazakh-girly I do have to share that if I have learned ANYTHING about kids in all this time it's to have faith that no matter WHAT is going on with your child that the stages and phases change rapidly! So keep in mind that you WILL eventually sleep well at some point regularly. And regarding the possible Pox I'd almost be hoping that she does get them now to get them over with. I don't know about Maine specifically but many states require mandatory chicken pox vaccine for entrance into school if the child has not had chicken pox. And if she doesn't get them now you should mention to her Ped. that she was recently exposed and ask that they check her immunity when they take blood to check iron levels and other routine things initially. She may just get lucky and get the full immunity without ever having the spots and if you have that documented it would be one less immunization she would need.

Anonymous said...

Hi, I have been reading your blog for the last month. Congratulations! Also, my little one was so excited, she didn't sleep either. Now home almost 11 months, she is a great sleeper. There is hope. Enjoy your remaining time in Kaz.

Susan said...

I hope your lil honey bunny sleeps tonight. She is probably just so excited to exploring with her parents!!! I'm glad you got her passport, and bummer on the holiday delays, but, hey, just more time you can spend getting aclimated to each other.
Oh man, sorry to hear about the chicken pox. I remember having it.

May the rest of your time in Kaz be filled with adventure and i hope your precious Kazakh princess feels better soon.
:)

Jaimie, Gena and Berik said...

Well we can say been there done that.. with the not sleeping in Kaz thing. I think they are so tired the first couple of days and then get a second wind the next couple and try out mommy and daddy! It is hard to establish a routine too as you will be in Almaty and then home. It did take us a while but he now sleeps on schedule naps and all!! We are so happy for you'll! Getting your bundle of joy during the holidays is the icing on the cake! Safe travels to you'll and we hope to see more after you get situated at home and maybe at Kazapalooza! Gena Lloyd

Anonymous said...

GREETINGS FROM MAINE,
MORE SNOW TODAY AND SOME MORE ON THE WAY SUNDAY, WE SEEM TO BE HAVING A REAL WINTER HAPPENING. I THINK YOU EVEN GOT SOME IN YOUR NECK OF THE "WOODS". LINDA NISTA'S HORSES WERE SO EXCITED ABOUT IT THAT THEY WENT ON A RUNABOUT TODAY, CAME ALL THE WAY UP OUR DRIVEWAY TO CHECK OUT THE DOGS!!!!
WE WENT TO THE MAPS PARTY THE OTHER NIGHT AND YOU WERE ONE OF THE TOPICS OF CONVERSATION. THE AGE RANGES OF THE KIDS WERE FROM ONE YEAR TO TEENS. SOME FAMILIES WITH OLDER CHILDREN FROM KAZAKHSTAN. FUNNY HOW WE ARE ALL WAITING FOR THE FINAL TRAVEL DATE TO FIRM UP FOR YOU. COMING HOME BECOMES SUCH A STRONG DESIRE AND IT WILL MAKE A DIFFERENCE IN YOUR DAUGHTER'S ADJUSTEMENT TO LIFE WITH YOU. SHE COULD BE DEALING WITH POX OR SHE COULD JUST BE SO STIMULATED BY THE WORLD OUTSIDE THE BABY HOUSE THAT SHE WANTS TO TAKE IT ALL IN. ANXIOUSLY AWAITING THE NOTICE THAT YOU ARE TRAVELLING HOME. LIZ, ANDY AND SOFIA

KMartin said...

Well, I know WE have been following your blog. We are from Pine Grove, PA. Is it that you have a knack for photography, or is your child really the cutest child ever? We think so. Best wishes! We are planning to travel to Uralsk shortly to adopt a little girl (hopefully) about the size of Aitugan.

Keith

Anonymous said...

Hey KJ, I got to see the new clinic today...wow is all I can say. Everything should be all moved in and either up and running or close to it by the time you get home. Lucky you missed out on all that hard labor. Our Coastal/Boothbay Christmas party is set for Sunday, but there is a rumor of a rather big storm heading or way so if there is a party, there are bound to be several no shows.
Glad to see that your little princess is finally acting like a normal 8 month old baby and disturbing your sleep a little, not to worry by the time she is my kids age she will be able to sleep 15 hours and never even twitch. Who knows she might even keep her room clean some day....LOL
email me back if you get a chance,
rowdie696@yahoo.com

Brian and Patti said...

Greetings from Schenectady NY!

My wife and I have really enjoyed reading your adventures in bringing home your Kazakh princess! She is absolutely beautiful!! We are currently waiting on our LOI and hope to travel within the next month or so!

I've especially enjoyed your tremendous photographic talent and creativity! Besides having such a beautiful model, the different angles and composition of your images have really made your blog "come alive"! It's been a real pleasure following your journey!

Brian & Patti

Anonymous said...

"The Aitugan Show" has to be the best of the year, probably of the decade, and possibly even of this century. I'm not overstating anything, am I? Thanks for sharing all of the heart-melting photos and brilliant commentary. My friend and I loved visiting you, dogs, cat and bird in 2001, and in some future year there will have to be a repeat of the above, along with meeting the shining star of this blog!
My warmest wishes and congratulations from icy Iowa,

Jane C., cousin of Grandma Susan

Kristan and Mark said...

Ahhhh, I remember thinking that he/she must be so tired he/she would sleep forever. Wrong with my older son, right with my younger son, wrong with my wonderful Kaz cutie!!

I also remember thinking that if I kept them up later, they would sleep in longer.......yep wrong again with all three.

And oh the Kaz holidays.......they get you one way or another it seems, but boy you are getting a lot of them! You seem to be making the most of your trip, as I did for the three months I spent in Karaganda. I was so ready to finally be home and now six months later it would all be a faded memory if I was not fortunate to be able to follow the blogs of you and others who keep it so alive for me.

Hope you all will soon be snoozing soundly or at least your little beauty (wink).
Kristan

Kristy said...

Hey there -

I am one of the readers down in Austin, TX. I got your blog from one of the Kaz yahoo groups. My husband and I are thinking of applying to adopt, so I faithfully have been following a few families blogs who are currently there now, including yourselves! Love the pictures and your great insightful writings. Congrats.

Kristy

Angela said...

"Its almost funny how wrong a new parents logic can be." Absolutely comical! Even when I have thought I have it all figured out, our son changes things up yet again. I can't think of no other way to describe it but to quote Bruce Lee:
"Be like water making its way through cracks. Do not be assertive, but adjust to the object, and you shall find a way round or through it. If nothing within you stays rigid, outward things will disclose themselves." This is designed to illicit a smile, but I also think there is something to "being like water" with children.

And, once again, I love seeing photos of your little Aitugan!

Trudi said...

Best wishes from Los Angeles! I check in every day to see your photos and hear what sweet Miss Aitugan is up to. Sounds like normal baby stuff to me - and you are right...you will never figure it out because once you think you do, she'll change it up on you. I hope she doesn't have chicken pox so you can meet up with Jen, Marshall & Aila in Almaty since it sounds like they will be there for another 12 days. Keep taking those pictures - you REALLY have talent!

Anonymous said...

Hello You Three-

Hope this finds you all well and a bit better rested?

Wanted to just say how much we have enjoyed keeping abreast on your progress. It is so very obvious how much you all love each other already. I promise you that the love you are experiencing now will only get deeper as the years pass.

Can only imagine how itchy you all are to get something concrete to plan your homecoming, but have no fear, we are all anxious for your return also.

I don't believe you will ever have a problem finding babysitters..., you will have them lining up to spend time with Aitugan.

Thank you for the lovely pictures, the thoughtful commentary and allowing us to take part.

Supposed to have a Nor'easter tomorrow and will most likely have to reschedule the office Christmas party. We all miss you KJ and can't wait to have you, Steve and Aitugan back here in Maine.
Lucy

Anonymous said...

Hi-

I have been following your blog for awhile..but never posted. We were in Astana in April/May adopting our 2nd. We also have a boy from Almaty. I love seeeing all of the pictures of Astana covered in snow. You live in the same area that we did.

Your daughter is beautiful. I love that you kept her name. We did the same for our children.

Thank you so much for sharing your story with us. It keeps the memories of the adoption of our children so real for me.

I hope all goes well for you in Almaty. Good luck!!!