01 July 2009

So apparently Bobek will be waiting for us in Shymkent.



Quietly in the background of our lives, the journey to our second child continues to make progress. The most recent development is the largest to date as we found out that our dossier has been assigned to Shymkent.

This is really the first piece of the child's forever history that we have. We still won't know gender, age, or ethnicity until we actually arrive in Kaz, but we now know that we will meet that child at the Baby House in Shymkent, Kazakhstan.

In many ways, this one detail adds the first glimmer of realism to an exercise that, to date, has remained mostly abstract.
In the long process that is Kazakh adoption, the assignment of your region allows focus. With the assistance of the internet and adoptive family blogs I was able to read stories of families who have adopted in Shymkent, to see images of the baby house and surrounding city, and to read about the history of the region, within just a few hours.

We are still being guided to think of the fall as the most likely time frame for us to travel to meet Bobek. (Just to reiterate, Bobek is the Kazakh word for baby and has become the moniker for child number two in the absence of any gender. age, or ethnicity information.)

Just last night KJ and I finally wrote down our own personal predictions for both our Letter of Invitation (LOI), and our arrival date in Kaz. I guessed that we would receive our LOI on 22 July and would arrive in Shymkent on 14 August while KJ predicted we would receive our LOI on 03 September and travel on 15 October. There is nothing scientific, or even well thought out, about any of this, just a fun guess. Feel free to make your own guesses.

On the map above you can find Astana(Tougy's birthplace) in the northern part of the country, while you will see Shymkent in the south. The map does little to demonstrate scale or show its place in the world, so I will just add that in terms of physical distances and relative positions, if Astana were New York City, Shymkent would be somewhere in Georgia, and Afghanistan would begin around Key West. Kaz is the 9th largest country by land mass and is the largest landlocked country in the world.

Given its location roughly 600 miles south of Astana we expect that the winters are a good bit more mild, though we still hope not to find out first hand.

For those of you who followed our time in Astana (Nov/Dec 2007), you will recall that our general feeling was that the city lacked any genuine authenticity, history, or sense of self. Shymkent appears not to have that same issue. Its history and importance date back to the 12th century when it was a trading stop along the Silk Route. Over the centuries it found itself more than once at the center of military conflict and turmoil. In its more recent past it gave much of its resources and environmental well being to the Soviet machine. First came a lead processing plant followed oil refineries, and phosphorous and cement factories.

I must admit to being more than a little excited to explore both this city as well as this region. For whatever reason, it has been difficult to find a great many images of the city's markets, bazaars, and cultural elements. I would love to change that to some degree. Maybe I am kidding myself and will find that all the 'charm' of such places were sucked away years ago during the Soviet era. Time will tell. Take Care.

23 comments:

Kristi Gruizenga said...

Hi KJ and Steve:

I have a friend who recently graduated from GW who is from Shymkent and *loves* to talk about his city. He is in Miami for the summer but "friend" me on facebook and then I can connect you to him that way if you are interested in chatting with him.

Congratulations on your news!

Kristi Gruizenga and (Semey baby) Mieke in DC

Susan said...

I'm so excited for you guys! Shymkent it is! I can't wait to follow along. I want you to enjoy your summer in Maine but also travel before it gets too cold in Kaz to make it hard to get out and about...so I'm not sure when that is..but I sure want KJ to be able to walk in November but I am thinking that may not be possible!

I'm excited for you guys and for Tougy to have a lil sibling to show off all her mad skillz. :)

Jennifer said...

Congratulations on your region assignment! I too would be excited just knowing that on one hand it's the third largest city, yet on the other hand, no one knows much about it. A good mystery! Or perhaps a tucked away jewel waiting to be discovered.

My guess is that all paper-pregnant KazMamas are going to be meeting children during the walk, so therefore I think you'll get your LOI Sept 8 and you'll travel Oct 27.

Kjersten, Steve, Aitugan & Nurai said...

Thanks Jen. We'll put your dates down on our calendar.

Jstar said...

Congratulations on your region assignment, what an exciting time!

Winde, Toon, Miel, Roos en Juul said...

Good luck with your second adoption!!! We are a Belgian family with already 2 children from Kaz (Aktobe and Karaganda) and our file for a third adoption was send to Kaz in May....
We would like to follow your road to your probably even beautiful second child...
Winde, Toon, Miel Arman and Roos Balzhan

Lisa and Thal said...

Congrats on making progress!

Toni said...

We adopted our son from Shymkent in Aug. 05. The following summer we had our translator come and stay for 3 months. We have remained very close to her through emails. She loves to meet up with Americans when they come to Shymkent so she can use her English. She is a terrific person, so if you would like to email her with any questions, I can give you her email. I have been following your blog all along and just want to say it is a great blog, and Tougy is an absolute beauty! Congrats Toni
My email is drosendahl@theworks.com

Unknown said...

Wow! Exciting! We've been thinking of you and wondering where and when you might be headed back to KZ. We'd love to drive up your way for a visit and to hear all about your upcoming adventure and to see that beautiful little girl. Well, of course to see you both as well. (-:

Hope your keeping busy with our rainy summer. The sun should be shining this coming week. (Fingers crossed!)

Anonymous said...

Wonderful news! And Shymkent is really close to Taraz, where I met my Alexa. My LMI coordinator adopted from Shymkent. I think they're very similar cities ;-)
Shannon

Brad said...

Great news! It won't be long now. Can't wait to meet your new little guy or girl. It was really great to see you guys in Nashville. Wish we could have spent more time with you, but having other close friends in Nashville, we felt we needed to be with them too. Stay in touch and we'll do the same. We're planning on being at Kazapalooza 2010 in Milwaukee!

Brad, Corrine and Andrew

Unknown said...

Congrats on your new region - good news! Can't wait to hear how it develops. Tougy will be such a great big sister! xo tanda

The Cook said...

Awesome news. I heard it is a great region. Can't wait to learn more about your little one.

Anonymous said...

KJ and Steve,

follow this link and you will find many photos of Shymkent
http://www.shymkent.ru/sightseeing/1/
Good luck in yuor adoption process. Try to Google Шымкент and you will get many russian language web sites.

regards,
Layla (native of KZ)

Jaimie Lloyd said...

How exciting .. a region!! Good for you! My guess is LOI .. Sept 13 landing in Kaz on Oct. 30 and picking up your "little Pumpkin" on 10-31. Don't mean to make you wait any longer, just seemed fitting. Gena & Jaimie

Suzette & Tate said...

Wow, it's been a while since I've checked your blog and you've been assigned a region for your 2nd Kaz adoption. That is great. Can't wait to find out more about Shymkent and follow your journey to baby #2. Congrats!!!

Chris R said...

Hi KJ, Steve, and Tougy - Wish we could have seen you all but it was great to see Steve in Lovell. The photos of Tougy are precious! She is so beautiful and full of happiness. You all look great as I spent a lot of time perusing your photo blog. It's great! Good luck with Bobek...can't wait to meet ?
All our love, Chris & Don Rothman

Maren and Peter said...

Yay! Congrats on the first step to your next little one. Can't wait to follow along once you head over to meet him/her!

Rob and Donalee said...

Hi! I "stalk" your blog online, and have for the last couple years. :o) We adopted our son Ethan from Kaz a year ago in June. He was at the Shymkent baby house too, so I felt the need to finally make "face to face" contact with you! We had a very good experience in Shymkent and were pleased overall with the baby house staff... Hoping all goes smoothly for you too! Will be anxious to see future posts and follow your journey with you! Congrats!!

Donalee (and Rob) Sipes

Stephanie and Gary said...

Congratulations!! i am very behind, just finding out this exciting news!! i hope perhaps there are more updates soon to come. Will our paths cross ... who knows ...
Actually, we were told we might be traveling in October (no region yet) but really ... it's all a guess.
Steph

Kari J said...

congratulations on your LOI!

Abby said...

I just got home a few days ago from my second trip to pick up my son who is adopted from the Shymkent baby house. I was there from July 27 - August 25 for my first trip. Please let me know if you have any questions or need any help.

Abby

4texans said...

Wonderful pictures, your daughter is just such a cutie!